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Looking after yourself after an unexpected loss
| Life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way, sometimes hitting us in places we least expect. Emotional setbacks—whether personal or professional—can shake our sense of stability, drain our energy and leave us questioning how to move forward. They come in many forms: a career disappointment, the loss of a loved one or a personal health struggle. Here are five strategies to help navigate emotional setbacks and rebuild strength when life feels overwhelming: 1. Acknowledge the Loss, but Don’t Get Stuck in It It’s natural to grieve when something we’ve invested in—whether a dream, a relationship, or years of hard work—falls apart. Ignoring emotions doesn’t make them disappear; it often prolongs the struggle. Give yourself permission to feel the loss, frustration, or sadness. Journal, talk to a friend, or simply sit with your emotions. Just don’t let them define your next steps. Recognizing what has happened is the first step in finding a way forward. 2. Shift Your Focus to What You Can Control After an emotional setback, it’s easy to fixate on what’s been lost. But focusing on what remains—and what is within your control—helps shift the narrative. In my case, I can’t bring back the trees, but I can decide how to restore my land over time. In the workplace, if you’ve faced a setback like a missed promotion or an unsuccessful project, look at the areas where you still have influence. Where can you take action? What next steps can you pursue? 3. Pace Yourself—Recovery Takes Time Resilience isn’t about pushing through at full speed; it’s about sustaining yourself for the long haul. Emotional setbacks take energy, and if you don’t give yourself time to recover, burnout is inevitable. Whether it’s a personal or professional challenge, recognize that healing happens in stages. Take breaks, get outside, lean on support systems, and allow space for rest. You don’t have to rebuild everything overnight. 4. Reframe the Challenge as an Opportunity for Growth Setbacks, as painful as they are, often hold unexpected lessons. Ask yourself: What can I learn from this? How can I use this experience to grow? When a project at work fails, it can highlight areas for development. When life throws a personal hardship your way, it can reinforce what truly matters. Even in loss, there’s the potential for renewal. 5. Find Strength in Small Wins Moving forward after an emotional setback doesn’t happen in giant leaps—it happens in small steps. Celebrate small wins, whether that’s making progress on a new goal, handling a tough situation with more grace, or simply getting through a difficult day. Each small step builds confidence and resilience. Sometimes, just taking the next right step is enough. |
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